5 SIGNALS THAT YOU'RE SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP (CONTROL FREAK)




YOUR EXPECTATIONS ARE UNREALISTIC


If you're a control freak you have most unrealistic expectations of your significant other and it is really hard to maintain some of these expectations. If your partner is constantly holding these kind of ridiculous expectations on you about everything, then you may have to consider leaving this person all together.


YOU ALWAYS MAKE DECISIONS


This is a a big warning sign that you are a control freak, and that you're sabotaging your relationship. You know exactly what you want, and how you want it, and you don't really care for anyone else's opinion on the matter. 

YOU THINK COMPROMISES ARE AN INSULT


Compromises show that you aren't able to control some things in your persona so it makes you feel as if your partner is not happy with you as a person. If there is truly no way of being able to communicate as to what a compromise would do for your relationship , then your partner might leave you entirely.

YOU'RE PICKING OUT YOUR PARTNERS OUTFIT


If you're the one that picks out your partners outfit, and you don't let any say in what they wear, or you say what they wear is ugly, then this is a pretty big warning sign that you're a controller. It's important to look good, but you should let your partner to be what they want to be.

YOU CAN'T STAND YOUR PARTNERS FRIENDS


If you despise your partners friends and when you want to hang out with your friends and not them then this is a huge warning sign that you are a control freak. The fact that you think that your partner want to go out with other people other than you drives you up the wall. You take this as them not wanting to be with you or that they would rather be with other people than enjoy your company instead. Everybody deserves relationships that are entirely separate from love life. Friends are very essential to everyone's life and for them to give you grief over having friends is ridiculous.


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