Be yourself
To act differently around people is easy. Everybody has their own expectations of you and others. From time to time we project these needs onto others. Don’t give into this influence! Be true to yourself,to who you actually are.Take good care of your feelings and your needs. Behave like you want to act while still respecting people around you. If you are being yourself and true to yourself you will attract people.
Treat people the way they deserve
People desire different things out of their life and have their own opinion about everything. Your personal opinion must not degrade anyone else’s no matter what may you may think or feel. If you ignore how people want to be treated you will never be able to connect with other people. People around you will balk at you and the relationship will sour. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
Learn how to listen
Just do it and do it better than you think you're doing.If someone is speaking to you put down what your are doing ,and listen to that person. Especially younger people with smartphones , iphones ,ipads etc. Address what that person is saying and share your insight with them. Don’t just stare at the person, engage! They came to you for a reason take the time to be there for them. Show your appreciation.
We are all equal
Don't raise your voice to your coworkers, because that is the same as yelling at your family member. Talking badly about your neighbors is the same as talking badly about your mother. Why? We are all one family, and we are all equal! That person you are interacting or yelling at is someone’s son, daughter, mother, father or more.
When you are wrong, just admit it
Probably this is the hardest thing to do for a few reasons. You're either too proud and think that you are never wrong or you were really trying to make that situation work and it didn't. Whatever the reason ego is murdering your relationship. Communicate about your intentions and explain that you didn’t want to hurt anyone.
Stop ignoring other people and problems
This is the worst solution you can do to solve anything. Hoping that everything will just diappear. If that problem just disappears, it will still stay in the person’s subconscious, changing how they act towards you. Also terrible thing to do is to make others deal with your problems. Clean up the mess you left behind.Pay attention to the non verbal clues.
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