Stoping kids from expressing themselves
Big problem that parents can do is stop the child from expressing themselves, which can only result with children's rebellion.The thing is that children should never be afraid to say what's on their mind. Children should never be afraid to talk about something they find interesting. Positive environment shows them that they can speak freely and share their ideas. In that kind of environment child is loved and free, and feels comfortable.
Giving kids responsibiliy to make them happy
It's ok to have big expectations from your kids. Parents just want the best for their children. They want healthy lives, happiness, and the best of everything that life can give, for them . But manipulating your children into doing things that make you happy, that's a real problem than needs to be solved.
Overly criticizing
First thing that child needs to do is to get to know the world they've been born into. It's important to learn, to explore everything, things they love and are good at, and just find their interests. But parents who are forcing their children into doing some extracurricular and other dull activities are actually doing a bad thing for their children.
Stopping them from achieving their goals
Parents sometimes project their own dreams and ideals on their children. A baseball-loving father may be disgusted by his son's interest in dancing and a former cheerleader mother may be repulsed with her daughter's interest in mma, but you have to let kids do their thing and figure out what it is that they want out of life.
Arguing close to children
Arguing, yelling or becoming physical, in front of your kids is a type of child abuse, and it has to be stopped immediately. It's proven that fighting in front of kids can be incredibly emotionally damaging to kids. It's ok to argue sometimes, but fighting should never ever happen in front of children.
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