Learn how to be independent
To remove insecurity from your relationship, you have to learn how to be dependant on yourself. Don't leave it all to your partner. Learn to stand on your own feet and you'll feel much more confident. Real partner will love you more because of it.
Stop being paranoid
Paranoia is usually based on nothing. You have to learn that your partner has all the right to talk with opposite sex, no matter how hot or attractive that person is. They're friends with them, they go to the same school with them, they're colleagues at workplace. If you can't trust your partner to be around them on their own, than you aren't ready for a serious relationship. Learn how to trust your partner.
You must leave your past behind
Let it go, just leave your past behind.Things that happened in the past are done, you can't change them. If you keep thinking about it , it's going to weigh you down and keep you feeling insecure. Find joy in present moment, and the things that will come in future.
Stop psyching yourself out
If something is concerning you, tell your partner. Your partner should always be there for you. There's nothing bad in that. If you don't do that, you're going to psych yourself out so bad which will lead you to insecurity. Make sure your worries don't exist just in your head, and put some trust in you partner to help yourself.
Realize it's not all about you
World is not revolving around you. There is no "I" in relationship. Partners are there for each other , with the need to trust each other and share their love. Enjoy your relationship every day and just be happy about it.
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