Stop expecting from people to always do the right thing
You have to understand that people won't always do the right thing. People don't have the same interests as you, and people make mistakes all the time. But you can try to be positive about it all, and calmly accept all the failures and mistakes that people do. Try to understand them, and your life will be a lot better.
Stop expecting from people to agree with you
If people have a different opinion respect that. It's their opinion, and you have yours, there is nothing that you can do about it. It doesn't matter who is right or who is wrong. Avoid arguing or debating because it rarely has positive outcome.
Don't expect from people to read your mind
If you have expectations make them clear to people. Nobody has the ability to read minds. Beacuse you will find yourself in awkward situation, and very often confused and disappointed. Show people what you want, tell that to people, make it clear and easy to understand and things will go well.
Stop expecting from people to understand you
Focus on yourself , and who you want to be, don't expect from people to understand you. You have your own ideas, dreams and goals, and other people's opinions about that aren't important. Because at the end of the day, you deserve the very best of what the world has to offer, and if people can't stand that it's not your problem.
Don't expect from people not to change
The thing is that people change over time. So not so smart thing would be expecting them to be the same person as they were 5,6 or 10 years ago. And if you keep bringing up the past, you'll push them away. Live in the moment and enjoy what happens now.
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